![]() ![]() ![]() Real, serious, lifelong fulfillment and meaning have to be earned through the choosing and managing of our struggles. We like the idea that we can feel fulfilled and satisfied with our lives forever. We like the idea that there’s some form of ultimate happiness that can be attained, We like the idea that we can alleviate all of our suffering permanently. This may make them feel better in the short term, but it leads to a life of anger, helplessness, and despair. Victims seek to blame others for their problems or blame outside circumstances. ![]() And because they deny reality, they must constantly delude or distract themselves from reality. Some people deny that their problems exist in the first place. True happiness occurs only when you find the problems you enjoy having and enjoy solving.ĭenial. ![]() Happiness is a constant work-in-progress, because solving problems is a constant work-in-progress - the solutions to today’s problems will lay the foundation for tomorrow’s problems and so on. Whether you realize it or not, you are always choosing what to give a fuck about. To not give a fuck about adversity, you must first give a fuck about something more important than adversity. Not giving a fuck does not mean being indifferent it means being comfortable with being different. The key to a good life is not giving a fuck about more it’s giving a fuck about only what is true and immediate and important. ![]()
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